IN-PERSON AND ONLINE FOR WOMEN IN TEXAS

Therapy for Anxiety & Perfectionism in Fort Worth

It’s okay to bless this mess.



You think it may be time to admit you’re crumbling under the pressure.

Maybe you’re in motion from the moment you wake up: Your alarm goes off and you immediately reach for your phone—checking work emails and social accounts and finding background noise to help hoist you out of bed. 

Most mornings you grab a container of yogurt or Mush (or just coffee) from the fridge before running out the door. Or maybe you stop for a breakfast sandwich or donut (or more coffee?) before heading to work. Once there, you have to perform twice as well to prove you’re worthy enough to be part of the boys’ club or risk getting fired and losing everything. 

Bring on more coffee, right?

If you’re coupled up, you might get a call from your boyfriend or husband who can’t find his wallet again, even though you put it in the same place you always do when you pull it from the back pocket of the pants he’s left on the floor and now it’s your fault he’s going to be late for some reason. And now it’s a fight, and you hang up terrified this will be the final straw that’ll make him leave you.  

You lay in bed at night, unable to sleep, unable to stop yourself from doom scrolling on your phone, maybe a little inebriated (I don’t judge), and wonder if it’s time to let go of the things in your life that aren’t working. But you stop there because the idea of actually doing it is too much. 

YOU MAY SEE YOURSELF IN THE ARCHETYPE OF…

A white Arctic fox standing on a rocky ground with a dark, blurred background.
A Monarch butterfly perched on a white flower with an orange center, amidst green foliage and small yellow flowers.
A group of sheep and a sheepdog walking along a rocky dirt path near a body of water on a foggy day.
Gold statue of Jesus Christ on top of a red brick church steeple against a blue sky.
A person dressed in historical armor, holding a spear, standing in a field during sunset, with a scenic landscape and a cloudy sky in the background.
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How I Work

The goal isn’t to get rid of your anxiety. It’s to stop letting your anxiety make your decisions for you.

Some anxiety is good. (Hear me out.) It's what kicks us in the pants to get going. But too much of it, especially when misplaced, can overwhelm your entire system. And when you’re someone who learned perfection equals safety, it can feed the anxiety until you're gripping so hard you can't feel your hands anymore. 

Together, we’ll take a journey to the past to find out where you got the message you needed to be “flawless” (and not in the Beyoncé way) to survive. Chances are it was protecting you from something. Okay, maybe everything was "good" growing up, but, I still have some questions: 

  • Was everything good because you learned not to make mistakes or rock the boat? 

  • What would life have looked like if your mom let you get your dresses dirty?

  • What if your family encouraged your interests for the joy of loving them instead of the achievements associated with them? 

  • Is it possible your household was filled with landmines and you had to learn to be perfect just to make sure you were safe?

These are all potential trauma zombies—things you buried a long time ago by overworking, drinking, smoking, eating, etc… But all that stuff was buried alive, and those memories are clawing their way out.

When we find those pivotal moments, we can use techniques like Accelerated Resolution Therapy® (ART)* to help you process difficult memories without having to relive them. When your inner critic starts running things, we'll use parts work and archetypes to meet her, thank her for all her hard work, and give her a well-earned demotion. She's been working overtime, anyway. She deserves a break too.

We'll also look at your body, because not everything you’re feeling is in your head. If your anxiety ebbs and flows in line with your menstrual cycle, that's invaluable information. I might ask about things like your caffeine intake (I know you need it, but do you really?), how you’re nourishing your body, and the vices you’re leaning on to get through that leave you spent the next day (because hangxiety is real). 

Ultimately, I want you to realize how amazing you truly are, and own that.

Healing your anxiety isn’t all about mindset.

As women, our bodies, physical health, and hormones are key players in how we feel. I take a functional approach to mental health that centers the mind-body connection.

Therapy can help you with:

You begin to identify the things that stress you out and you have ways to prevent them from escalating to behaviors that deplete you. You’re able to relax, rest, and experience stillness without guilt. You learn how to ground yourself in your physical body and connect to your intuition. 

01

Body Security

Self worth

You can release the feelings of guilt, regret, and anger you’ve been holding onto about past experiences. You begin to shift your focus to what is within your control, instead of fighting to control everything outside of you.

02

You realize that confidence isn’t an absence of fear, but the ability to move through fear with self-trust. You begin to see challenges as opportunities and past mistakes as sources of wisdom. You build the resilience to step into the unknown without the need to control the outcome.

03

Confidence

You recognize the situations that lead you to drink, smoke, shop, binge, or scroll, and replace those behaviors with nourishing ones built on intention. You no longer engage in one-night-stands or hook-ups to feel wanted because self-love and affection is enough. You’re able to break the cycle of self-sabotage and procrastination because you no longer fear the what-ifs. 

04

Destructive coping mechanisms

Boundary setting

You’re able to set boundaries in your relationships without fear of rejection or abandonment. You understand, in your soul, that if it’s not a “hell yes,” it’s a “hell no,” and you honor that. You regain your energy and your power because you realize it’s not your job to control how other people feel or behave.

05

You clarify your core values and desires (the things you want, not the things that placate other people), and take meaningful action on those wants. You step into new opportunities because you know what’s possible. You remember your creative power and reconnect with your purpose.

06

Embracing Growth

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THERAPY FOR ANXIETY & PERFECTIONISM IN FORT WORTH

Start living a life that moves toward what you love, instead of moving away from what you fear.

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*Accelerated Resolution Therapy® is a registered service mark of the Rosenzweig Center for Rapid Recovery (RCRR), used with permission.