SUPPORT FOR FEMALE TRAUMA
Trauma Therapy in Fort Worth, TX
What happened to you is real and worthy of being seen.
“Why do I feel so empty?”
And still, you can’t shake the feeling that something about your childhood really messed you up. It might be those little comments from your parents or other adults in your life that stuck with you: “You’re never going to get a husband looking like that.” “You’re going for seconds?” “You’re leaving the house like that?”
Even now, you have a good job, decent income, an apartment in a good part of town, maybe a boyfriend who treats you well. You think you “should” feel like you have it all, but deep down there’s this hole that no amount of success, booze, shopping, food, sex, or pimple popping can fill.
Maybe something capital-H-happened to you that sticks out as a moment that changed your life forever. It might be an event you can point to specifically and say, “I wasn’t the same after that.” And now you’re experiencing thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that seem outside of your control.
Or maybe, when you look back on how you grew up, you would say you were fortunate. Maybe you had all your physical needs taken care of, trips to Disney World, money for new shoes every school year.
LIVING WITH TRAUMA CAN LOOK LIKE….
Having a good boyfriend who tries his best and still not being able to stop bracing for him to turn on you because that’s what’s happened with others before him.
Keeping the TV on, working late, inviting a friend to stay over when your husband is out of town—anything to avoid being alone with your thoughts.
Wearing oversized, boxy, or modest clothing because it feels protective, even though the “real you” wants to dress up, dye her hair, and show some skin so you’re not sweating your ass off in the summer.
Getting stuck in a loop of starting arguments with your husband or boyfriend, coming to your senses, and reaching out to make up, while he wonders where all this is coming from.
Reaching for a cookie, blunt, cigarette, drink, or credit card—or swiping on a dating app—when certain emotions creep to the surface, feeling better for a second, beating yourself up over it, and then doing it again.
Hating and punishing your body because it’s “too much” or “not enough,” or ignoring your physical existence completely.
How i Work
I believe there should be absolute zero shame around a woman’s trauma, coping mechanisms, or lived experiences.
THIS IS A SACRED SPACE WHERE YOUR WOMANHOOD IS SEEN AND RESPECTED
How many times have you opened your mouth to tell someone what happened to you, only to swallow the big stuff and sanitize the rest? Let’s be real, women are taught to keep a lot of our stuff quiet. That’s not how it works in here.
I want you to keep it real and raw, and I will too. My face doesn’t have a filter, because I’m not a robot. If I feel an emotion while you tell your story, you’ll see it. I may even cry. I don’t see tears as weakness, I see them as understanding (plus, they sparkle!).
My own forays into addressing trauma taught me that we need to support the body as much as we support the mind. My office is a nourishing space with refreshments, chocolate, tissues, and comfy blankets. I incorporate holistic therapy by encouraging you to track your menstrual cycle to identify behavioral and emotional patterns, and I might suggest bloodwork or other tests to get the full picture of what’s going on.
The way we work in sessions can cover a lot of ground depending on what speaks to you. We can discuss practical skills like sleep, time and money management, and eating routines. We may pull oracle cards, incorporate ritual, explore the divine feminine, or delve into archetypes. I also offer options to experience therapy outside in the form of walk-and-talk or nature intensives.
Sometimes, I may suggest side quests for you to pursue between sessions like books, podcasts, or defense courses like Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu or Muay Thai.
I want you to walk out of our sessions knowing not only that you can do really difficult things, but that you can survive them (you already have). And the understanding that experiencing hard things does not need to harden you.
You can work through traumatic memories without having to relive them.
I specialize in Accelerated Resolution Therapy® (ART), a form of therapy that can provide immediate relief from the effects of trauma without having to share the details of what happened.
THERAPY FOR TRAUMA CAN HELP YOU:
Stop organizing your entire life around avoiding
The people, places, thoughts and conversations that used to send you spiraling lose their grip on how you live your life, and your world starts getting bigger again instead of smaller.
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Make choices you don’t have to recover from the next morning.
You learn to tell the difference between numbing out and genuinely soothing yourself, and reaching for something destructive stops being your only option when the pressure builds.
Know what your body needs before it has to scream at you to get your attention.
You start working with your body instead of treating it like an inconvenience you have to manage.
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Keep your past from showing up in your relationship like an uninvited third wheel.
You stop bracing for the worst in your relationships when they’re good, or you leave the relationship that isn't working. Either way, you're making choices from the present, not reacting from the past.
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Stop waiting for someone to tell you you’re allowed.
You take calculated risks based on what you truly want for your life because you trust yourself enough to handle whatever comes from it.
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Take care of yourself the way you’ve been taking care of everyone else.
You build systems around your time, your money, your sleep, and your meals that are designed for your life instead of everyone else's. You stop confusing exhaustion for effort and start treating yourself like someone worth taking care of. (Because you are. You always were.)
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TRAUMA THERAPY FOR WOMEN IN FORT WORTH, TX
The things you’ve been through don’t have to define you anymore.
FAQs
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I hold a Master's in Professional Counseling and I'm certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy, which is one of the primary tools I use with trauma clients. I've trained through the Somatic Wilderness Therapy Institute in Boulder across multiple programs for nature-based trauma work. I'm certified in functional hormone health because trauma doesn't stay in your head, it shows up in your body, and I want to understand what's happening there too.
I've worked in intensive outpatient programs and at a nonprofit supporting individuals and families healing from trauma. And I've done my own work. My life path initiated me into this field, and everything I ask you to try is something I've done myself.
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I like to start with weekly sessions for a minimum of 6 to 12 weeks so we can build momentum. If you're working through more complex trauma, I have a strong preference for weekly sessions for about 6 months. From there, we check in and adjust. Most of my clients eventually move to every other week because they don't need me as often, and that's the goal. You choose between 50-minute and 90-minute sessions. (My clients almost always choose 90.)
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You might not. Most of the women I work with don't walk in saying "I have trauma." They walk in saying "I can't sleep," "I can't stop picking fights with my boyfriend," "I don't know why I keep binging," or "I'm anxious all the time and I don't know why." Trauma isn't always the big, obvious thing. Sometimes it's the environment you grew up in, the roles you learned to play, the beliefs you absorbed about yourself before you were old enough to question them. If something in your life keeps repeating and you can't figure out why, there might be something underneath it worth looking at.
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Come in anyway. You don't need a diagnosis or a label to sit on my couch. You don't need to have your story figured out before our first session. A lot of my clients come in for anxiety or relationship issues and we discover together that there's something older running underneath it. That's what the first session is for. You tell me your story, I ask questions, and we figure out what's going on together. You don't need to have it all mapped out. That's my job.
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Yes. Trauma isn't limited to assault, abuse, or a single catastrophic event. Growing up as the emotional caretaker of your family is trauma. Having a mother who commented on your body at the dinner table is trauma. Being the kid who learned to read every micro-expression in the room to keep the peace is trauma. Being bullied, abandoned, betrayed, or victim-blamed is trauma. If the way you grew up is still dictating how you cope with stress, handle conflict, and show up in relationships, that's worth looking at regardless of whether it fits the definition you have in your head.
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No. I believe a woman should not have to re-traumatize herself by speaking the most horrific details of her life out loud if she doesn't want to. Healing does not require feeling humiliated or ashamed. That's why I use Accelerated Resolution Therapy. It lets us process and clear trauma without you having to verbalize it.
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I don't believe you should be in therapy forever. I view our work as a vision quest: I meet you in a specific season of your life, we do the work, and the goal is for you to outgrow me. Some clients wrap up in a few months. Some with more complex trauma work with me for six months to a year. Some take a break and come back when something new comes up. Some stick around every other week because they like having the space and they define it as self-care. I'm supportive of all of it, as long as you're retaining your agency and getting benefit from our time together. But my orientation is always toward graduation.
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For trauma processing, I like to use Accelerated Resolution Therapy, which lets us clear the painful charge from a memory in a single session without you having to talk through the details. I also use Internal Family Systems (IFS), parts work, and attachment-informed modalities.
Some sessions we take outside for a walk-and-talk because walking does something to your brain that sitting in a chair doesn't. We might do neurographic painting, pull oracle cards, explore archetypes, or bring in ritual. I bring functional health into our trauma work too, tracking your cycle and making sure your body is resourced while your mind heals. How we work depends on where you are and what your mind, body, and soul need that day.
*Accelerated Resolution Therapy® is a registered service mark of the Rosenzweig Center for Rapid Recovery (RCRR), used with permission.